Parkinson’s disease is a movement disorder that often requires long-term care as it progresses over time. People living with more advanced stages of Parkinson’s typically require a caregiver (often a family member) to help them with daily activities, such as eating, dressing, bathing, using the bathroom, sleeping, and moving safely around the home.
Caregivers tending to loved ones with advanced Parkinson’s need to be equipped for the changes involved as the disease progresses. Many MyParkinsonsTeam members who serve as caregivers for a loved one with Parkinson’s disease report challenges.
One MyParkinsonsTeam member said, “My husband has had Parkinson’s for over 25 years. He is at stage four. For over a month, he has been seeing things that are not there. … We don’t share a room anymore. We haven’t for about three months. The reason is because he has very vivid dreams.”
Another member commented, “I’m caring for my husband. … Each day, there is something new and different to deal with.”
Just as people with advanced Parkinson’s need support, so do their caregivers. This article serves as a caregiver’s guide and talks about five ways to support your loved one while also taking care of yourself.
One important way to support your loved one is by helping ensure their symptoms are managed as effectively as possible. In advanced stages of Parkinson’s, many people experience new or changing symptoms that may signal it’s time to revisit their treatment plan with a neurologist or movement disorder specialist.
You might consider bringing up a medication review if your loved one:
Doctors may adjust the timing or dosage of current medications or recommend additional treatments to better manage advanced Parkinson’s symptoms. Possible adjustments include:
Always talk to your loved one’s doctor before making any changes to medications.
In addition to adjusting medication, healthcare specialists may suggest device-assisted therapy for those with advanced Parkinson’s disease. These therapies use pumps or surgical implants to deliver more consistent treatment.
The three main options are:
Each of these options has benefits and potential risks, and not everyone with Parkinson’s is a candidate. Talk to your loved one’s neurologist or movement disorder specialist to learn more about what might be right for them.
Even with the right medication plan, people living with advanced Parkinson’s may still struggle with gait (the pattern or style of how a person walks) as well as balance and frequent falls. Gait changes in Parkinson’s can include shorter steps, a stooped posture, or difficulty starting or stopping movement. These issues increase the risk of falling, which is why movement-based therapies, including physical therapy, can play a key role in managing symptoms.
Research shows that targeted movement training may help improve balance in people with Parkinson’s. For people with mild to moderate Parkinson’s, both resistance exercises and tai chi can reduce the risk of falls, according to a study in The New England Journal of Medicine.
Ask your loved one’s doctor which types of exercise or physical therapy might be safe and beneficial based on their symptoms and stage of Parkinson’s. The doctor may also provide guidance on how you can support your loved one in staying active, motivated, and safe during movement.
Caring for someone with advanced Parkinson’s can take a toll on your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Many care partners experience Parkinson’s caregiver fatigue, a deep, persistent exhaustion that builds over time. It’s important to recognize when you may need help, rest, or additional support.
Signs of caregiver fatigue include:
Members of MyParkinsonsTeam often talk openly about the emotional weight of caregiving. “My wife fell yesterday while I was showering, and I couldn’t hear her calls for help,” one member wrote. “Thankfully, she was just bruised. Felt guilty for not being there.”
Another said, “You do what you have to do for their care and your own self-care. One person can’t do it all. Don’t feel guilty.”
Parkinson’s doesn’t just affect the person diagnosed. It can strain even the strongest relationships. Many care partners are also spouses or long-term partners, and balancing the roles of caregiver and companion can be overwhelming.
“As a person who’s been married for 26 years, with the last four years trying to deal with my husband with this disease and my health issues, just make sure you’re in it for the long haul. It’s a big challenge — be sure you’re educated on this topic,” one MyParkinsonsTeam member shared.
Another wrote, “Hubby is in personal care and I’m living at our home. His Parkinson’s seems to get worse every day. He’s now having delusions of me being with another man and divorcing him.”
Some members have turned to counseling or relationship therapy for support. Others have found it helpful to take short breaks during emotionally intense moments. Sudden changes in behavior or personality can sometimes stem from Parkinson’s-related cognitive changes, not relationship issues alone.
Caring for someone with Parkinson’s disease is a long-term commitment, and it’s just as important to care for yourself along the way. The Parkinson’s Foundation emphasizes that care partners need support, too. You can call their helpline at 800-473-4636 to find local support groups, educational tools, and resources tailored for caregivers.
Creating a self-care plan can help you stay physically, mentally, and emotionally strong. It also gives you a way to recharge, so you can continue to care for your loved one without losing yourself in the process.
Here are several types of self-care you might include in your routine:
You are more likely to be able to provide high-quality care for others if you’re taking care of yourself as well.
On MyParkinsonsTeam, people share their experiences with Parkinson’s disease, get advice, and find support from others who understand.
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